I told my husband how much I weigh!!
I have never and I mean NEVER been honest with my husband about my weight!! I mean we have been together since I was 14 and a lovely size! I thought if I lied about my weight then he wouldnt know how big I really way.. stupid I know cuz he sees me EVERY day!!! I had always told him he couldnt come back with me at my doctor appts. because they ask personal questions and they thought if I had my husband around I wouldnt answer honestly! My husband actually believed me and I would wait until after I was weighed EVERY time before I would tell him to come on back! I felt horrible for lieing but not near as bad as how I would feel if he knew how fat I really was!
I cant say it felt great telling him.. because now everytime he looks at me I think all he is thinking is about how fat I am!! I am happy though that I was finally honest with him!
As far as my diet.. I cheated and four chips today. I wonder if just the four chips will matter. God I hope not.
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HA!! I could have written this blog…My husband and I have been together 8 years and I have never told him my weight - even when I was fit and trim…LOL He asks occasionally thinking I will slip up and tell him but I won’t…
I think that it is great that you told your hubby! It only becomes a big thing when we make it a big thing.
Maybe I will take a page from your book…..you have me thinking now…=)
My hubby doesn’t know what I weigh and he never will until I reach my goal weight. He knows what I want to lose so he will be able to figure it then, but until then it is my secret!
Big HUGS!
I told my husband what I weighed the day a weighed less that him. lol And it wasn’t all that long ago. Bless his heart, he acted totally amazed that I weighed that much. (he weighs 168) I love him more now than I did when I met him in 1989. And I was wild about him then!
Ijust did the very same thing with my boyfriend! He was sabataging my food plan with the “ahh a little bit wont hurt” and finally I sat him down and told him how much I really wiegh. What a burden lifted and he had no clue that I had reached 300! Now he understands that its a life threatening thing and just a little bit can hurt me if I stray from my plan.
I was scared shi*less and I dont know why cause now I have my #1 fan and supporter.
I applaud this! I’m like Sandy… I’ll tell my boyfriend once I weigh less than him!
OMG I though I was the only one that didn’t want to tell her husband. he asks me sometimes but I always tell him that he’ll find out onceI reach my goal. What sucks is that he starts to guess and he always guesses the same as everyone else 170!!! I WISH!! at least he see’s me smaller than what I really am.
I tell mine now. I used to not simply because he used to be such a critical person. If I weighed too much, I was fat….If I weighed just right, i was bragging. Pfftt…lol Now he is much nicer and has learned to control his mouth over the last 14 years.
I know your hubby doesnt walk around worrying about your weight or really even thinking about it. We women do enough of that! lol
Girl…i am so proud of you. I know you’ve been struggling with this. But just think he loves you no matter what. My husband always says he doesn’t care what size i am its who i am. I never believe him though. LOL but i think its us we are the ones with the problem of our weight. Not them.
Oh 4 chips isn’t going to kill you!!
Right now I do weigh less than my boyfriend however he did ask once and I said 190 and he said no way you have to be lying there is no way you can weigh that much you must only weigh like 130 so I just told him yup that’s how mcuh I weigh lol and he believed me to this day he thinks that I only way 130 because that’s what he sees me as. It’s not like if I made him believe the truth he would think of me differently becuase one he knows what I look like in everything. And he doesn’t actually care how much I weigh. But to know that to him I only feel like or look like 130 is a great confidence booster. SO I just keep it at that and when I finally do weigh 130 I will get on the scale and show him but until then he isn’t goin to know a thing. But I do think that it is awesome that you told your hubby. And try not to worry about what you think he may see in you now becuase it will just cause unwanted stress. He loves you just the way you are. If he has been with you that long and he obviously sees you everyday, than it will be okay. A number shouldn’t change anything, the way you look is the way you look. I know a young girl my age who weighs 150 and looks like she could be 110 she is so skinny she just has muscles and is bigger in all the right places rather than the wrong. So don’t worry.
I do the same thing at my drs appts.. which is a good thing because my dr is such an ass he reminds me everytime i go in how im fat and never applauds how much i already lost.
the only thing ive told my hubby is how much i want to loose and how much i lost so far. i told him i think i should share it so i feel acountable for it but weight is just a number and whose to say at 160lbs on a 5′9″ frame looks bad compared to 125lbs (the lowest i can be according to bmi)
its all subjective